• scaredoftrumpwinning@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    I work for a company with both European and American employees. Even the European employees didn’t know how bad it was, and we work for the same employer. I hope I can live till retirement and not get diagnosed with cancer the day after like my Dad. Would be nice to do something those last years if there’s a planet left, I have some money and my body isn’t broken.

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    3 days ago

    The biggest reason to knock off working on vacation or after hours is that it creates a false expectation on the the workload. If you can’t get it done during regular office hours, than that means your company needs more people or a process improvement.

    If you are working these extra untracked hours, you are the problem. If you get rewarded for doing so, your company is toxic and will only expect more as you move up the ladder.

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      3 days ago

      I told a manager that, if you work 60h a week, you don’t know how to do you job. I slipped in that hourly payment isn’t terrible either if you do so.

      He never bothered to try to make me work “for free” ever again.

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        No one on there deathbed will say they wish they worked harder. They will regret all the other moments they missed because they were working too much.

        Time is more than just money, it’s your life.

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          I read somewhere on a study of male americans on their deathbed, that they were 100% who regretted being in the office to much.

          Can’t find the source though.

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    3 days ago

    I felt even more like I was getting a raw deal when I realized the Germans and French were largely taking the entire month of August off.

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      It feels unreal for me to know that some countries have not even 3 weeks of holidays. How can you relax and stop thinking about your job? People aren’t exhausted?

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      3 days ago

      They what? Why didn’t any of my fellow Germans tell me?

      Most jobs, at least the better paying ones, include 6 weeks of vacation. However, you can use them all at once.

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    I’m just one of countless victims of the launch of the cell phone in North American IT. This shit kills. Figurative and literally.

    24 hour reachability is 24 hour work. Shit accumulates and all of a sudden you haven’t actually relaxed in 20 years and you get phantom phone vibrations.

    Funny enough I wear a pager for 1/4 of my life now. But it’s totally fine because there’s on then off. Work days and not work days. Day and night. Work and life.

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      I was on call 24/7 for years. It’s been a long time since I had to deal with that (with a slide into a related career rather than changing careers) but I will never forget how terrible it was. I wasted what should have been my best years on that shit.

      Now there’s only one person at work who has my number. He doesn’t call except for the one time I forgot to put my day off on the calendar. My work apps are paused at 5pm and all weekend. I only get alerts on my computer. However, I still twitch sometimes when my phone goes off after hours because it was a learned and deeply reinforced response for so many years.

    • Denvil@lemmy.one
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      3 days ago

      I work as an electrician on a construction site, and one of the greatest perks of the job is that you leave it there. It’s not like you can work from home in the first place, and we don’t really have shifts. Everybody comes in at the same time and leaves at the same time, so you don’t have to bother with covering extra shifts.

      That isn’t to say it’s a dream job of course, the perks are great, but the work itself will probably bite me in the ass later with health issues…

  • Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world
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    I stopped going to dinner with my wife and her father when he’s in town. We will go to a restaurant and he’ll pull out his laptop and phone and start working, while vaguely listening to what we’re saying

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        My wife always brings it up. He’s one of those people who just does his own thing and doesn’t really care about anyone else’s plans or preferences, so that’s another reason I stopped going out with them. It could be a group of 10 and he wants Indian food but everyone else wants Mexican, so he compromises by having us all go to the Indian place… Where he can order his food in an Indian accent to the Indian waiter

  • MissJinx@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Labour laws my dude! When the government protect people and not corporations. I can just ignore them for 60 days a year and it’s cheaper to accept than fire me

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        It is that simple but it’s not that easy. Lots of problems have simple fixes that are extraordinarily difficult to implement for a whole host of reasons.

        That doesn’t really change what you’re getting at though. I guess I was feeling pedantic. Feel free to ignore me 😊

  • EnderMB@lemmy.world
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    I really wish that Americans didn’t lump an entire continent with their own laws, cultures, and customs together.

    Yes, the American attitude towards work sucks, but comparing Germany and the UK is like comparing New York with Kingston…

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        I highly doubt it, since any European with sense will know that some countries have far different attitudes towards work than others, and complicated relationships between eastern and western Europe in regards to skilled trade work and immigration…