I love being hit on by gay men. I can actually tell it’s happening.
Right?! This right here.
I was once yelled at by a friend of a girl for “ignoring her advances.” I kid you not, the “advances” consisted of her walking up to me at a party, saying “hey, aren’t you in my math class?” (To which I answered in the affirmative) and “well, um, I guess I’ll see you there Monday!”
How the fuck was I supposed to know that was an attempt at flirting?
The older gay guy at work? “You’re gorgeous. Ever consider dating a man?”
Society has reinforced that women should be passive, and even after much progress on that front in general, somehow this still applies in some people’s minds.
I would guess.
No biggie though, depends what you personality traits you yourself are looking for, if being proactive is one of them, then I guess you haven’t missed out 😅
And if you weren’t interested and the friend is yelling at you angrily, that’s mega questionable. Last I checked, no one is obligated to be interested romantically in anyone else…
I’m a cishet man. Only one gay man has ever hit on me and it disappoints me. Like what’s wrong with me, guys? Don’t you want this body?
I’m a straight dude, and I would be Don Juan if as many women found me attractive as gay dudes have.
Now I really wanna see a picture!
I’ve only been hit on once by gay men and it was a case of mistaken identity. It was at a halloween party in 2004 and I was dressed as an Abu Ghraib detainee from Iraq, mostly naked wearing just a black hood, a dog collar and leash around my neck, and skin colored underwear with a stuffed dog attached as if it was biting my crotch. Nobody really got the costume - they just assumed it was some sort of fetish thing.
I was literally in a gay bar the only time I was hit on. My friend was the bartender and I’d hang out there with him sometimes. So for all I know, the guy hitting on me was just very desperate.
I sure wasn’t hit on any of the other times I was in there.
🙁
I went to a gay bar with my gay friends from work last week. I had 5 compliments on my beard. It felt so good.
What those guys look like now:
Oh hey, I see you’ve met the guy who keeps aggressively refusing to take my friends’ nos for an answer
Just cuz someone’s blind doesn’t mean they are willing to date the ugliest ogre.
How did yall get my picture?
The struggle of being straight women…
The odds are good but the goods are odd.
Om nom nom nom…
Also heard “fat women are disgusting” LOL
