• Nightwingdragon@lemmy.world
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    15 days ago

    We can no longer hide behind the excuse of “the electoral college”. We can no longer say that Trump did not win the popular vote. Trump won the Presidency, retook the Senate, and are poised to retain the house. Progressive candidates and initiatives either underperformed or failed nationwide. A majority of voters nationwide saw everything that came with a Trump presidency and a MAGA agenda and said “Yes. We want more of that.”

    We are not better than this.

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      I dont get how someone can vote for Obama twice and then just say fuck it at some point. Isn’t that what more or less keeps happening, how does one make sense of all this?

      How is there so much turnover and churn every election, how can someone who says he’s going to make everything harder for you have any appeal?

      My only guess is he’s promising to go even harder on people they don’t like which magically makes it all palatable

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        That was my brother-in-law. In West Virginia. Votes for Obama twice then Trump.

        Near as I can tell, they want “change” and doesn’t matter much what that means. They feel powerless in the face of the “other”. The government itself is “other”. It’s who they blame for problems whether it’s taxes or complicated rules for their small business or the way “elites” get away with doing the stuff they can’t do. They have some legitimate gripes with the government and “elites”.

        Obama sold “change” really well. So did Trump. It’s not the same kind of change. And, he employed many more “others”. Trump’s change is a lie but Obama’s change never materialized even though he was probably more sincere about it.

        These people are dealing with feelings of frustration, inadequacy, envy and shame. They’re lashing out and their only power is their vote. Trump fed those feelings and gave them a target and convinced them that only he could help them.

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          If you were to put on your diagnostician hat, what do you think he actually needs and would be satisfied with. Like what actual change does he seek and would it actually satisfy him?

          What kind of change was Obama actually selling, what ideas did your relative have that Obama was going to fix that he became disillusioned by?

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            I think making them financially and emotionally comfortable. Reduce the wealth gap and convince them that government is advocating for them in concrete ways.

            This would be real change and I’m not sure many places in the USA—especially where it’s most needed—are capable of making that change.

            Certainly, Trump and his ilk are working to do the opposite while waving panaceas in their faces.

            Sometimes, I think Democrats and the left get too caught up in the big picture issues and ignore the ground work that’s needed. They’re trying to grow a forest without clearing the rocks and weeds. You don’t combat transphobia, misogyny and racism just by preaching the virtues of inclusivity. You have to address the insecurities that lead to that kind of hate. That means helping the despicable people and I can’t blame anyone for not wanting to help them. But, that puts us in a vicious circle.

            I don’t think change will ever come from the top. It’s got to start very local. Think about conservative talk radio and how influential that is/was. It was someone talking directly to them even if it was a syndicated show it was on a local AM station. They sowed the fear and anxiety that lead us here. The Dems/liberal/left still seems to mostly ignore that.

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              Do they have patience for this? Everything you’re suggesting is a long term change. No President can do this during their term. The constant search for change just means any progress gets thrown away every four years. And as you said, much of it has to come from the bottom up, from the very people who are frustrated with the status quo

              Are he just doomed because people don’t have the patience for long term societal change, or don’t see that they need to be part of it?

              Are we doomed because people can’t get beyond outrage media?

              Are we doomed because complaining about a problem is easier than fixing it,or easier even than learning the truth about it?

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          These people should consider taking a bullet to the head next time. Would save the rest of us a lot of trouble, while brining the exact same change they voted for.

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          This was the UK electorate with Boris Johnson.

          It takes an absolute economic shitshow for people to stop wanting “change” and wanting simple good governance.

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        Simply because Obama did awful stuff too. He’s a war criminal as much as bush or biden or trump.

        I thought their messaging to voters was patronizing/insulting as well.

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      I’m German, and non-Germans always find it weird that most of us don’t have a very strong sense of national pride and are even very critical of our country, sometimes maybe even excessively so.

      We have learned what uncritical, unreflected national pride leads to. What the price is to not confront the dark side that every society has.

      And now, sadly, the US has to learn the same lesson the hard way too. I only hope the US and the rest of the world can come out of it with as little bloodshed as possible. But I fear for the worst.

      “Remember, remember the 5th of november.” has a altogether new meaning now.

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      Instead of doubling down on our beliefs with authenticity as the Right does (I mean, many abortion referendums did pass), we repeatedly cede ground to the Overton Window.

      The problem is we don’t actually engage in the same degree of activism in the off-season and always let conservatives control the narrative on largely manufactured issues and half truths.

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      I do think we can blame the electoral college to a certain extent. How many people sat home in deep red states because their vote never matters? Unless you live in a handful of states there is almost no point. Take that away and let the people have a voice, not some bullshit system which was designed to prevent leaders like him getting elected.