• scarabic@lemmy.world
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    22 days ago

    A boy at my kids preschool wanted to be Anna from Frozen. His parents dressed him as Anna. I don’t think they went out of their way to feminize him - he had no wig or makeup, for example. But he was in a dress, because that’s what Anna wears. Was he a “male version of Anna?” No. Was he going as a female? No. He was just the character. Similarly, if a little girl puts on an iron man suit, is she a “female iron man” or some kind of “Iron Woman?” No.

    So when you say “a male version of a character” I hear that you are not just going as a character who happens to be the other gender but you are putting a specific twist on that character. There’s nothing wrong with that necessarily. But it can definitely go wrong depending on the character and how you handle it. We’d just need more information. It’s one of those things that doesn’t have bright line rules. Like all issues of content offensiveness.

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    22 days ago

    I personally think all gender flip characters are dumb, in either direction, personally. But here’s the thing; it doesn’t matter what I think. Do whatever the hell you want.

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    22 days ago

    I’m just having a hard time imagining a scenario in which it would be offensive…

    Plenty where it would be a little confusing. Sandra Dude O’Connor, or Susan Bro Anthony would take some explaining, at the least.

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    24 days ago

    I can’t see a problem with fictional characters. It’s when you bring in the real people that the drama starts. Trans JK Rowling, KaMANla Harris, Hillbilly Eilish, and Marjory Taylor Peen all seem like they would raise a few eyebrows.

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      24 days ago

      Ha, never heard or thought of trans Rowling but if I knew Harry Potter better I’d be damned tempted.

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    24 days ago

    I dont think so, nor do I care. Black people dress up as white characters all the time, I consider it the same. Dressing up as a character means that character means something to you, so I dont see where anyone should be offended by it.

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        24 days ago

        In case someone reading had a similar question but about race. Why do you care, do people of different races bother you?

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            23 days ago

            I love it when I say what I think and people don’t have a real response so they just call me a troll, lol.

            That’s fine, block me so I don’t have to deal with you anymore, I’m cool with that.

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              23 days ago

              On the very unlikely chance you’re being genuine, which I don’t think you are, there’s a great quote you should consider.

              “If you meet one asshole, then they’re an asshole. If everyone you meet is an asshole, you’re the asshole.”

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                23 days ago

                Not everyone I meet treats me the way people on Lemmy treat me. I am told I am a kind person and most people, while apathetic, are not so rude as Lemmy users. It’s a great quote, but ultimately not applicable to this particular situation. Have a good day, or not, make of it however you will.