• Feathercrown@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    To everyone in the comments saying he must have other mental health problems: do you really not believe someone can just be “normal” or is it a meme?

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      1 month ago

      Perfect is impossible, Normal is a range. Everyone has a personality and individual quirks, but unless they are interfering with your life, that is normal, yes?

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      1 month ago

      “normal” is not only unnatural, but a goal that cannot be reached.

      Most of the things people call mental disorders are actually things we evolved to be advantages in a more natural competitive environment. When I say natural, I mean before cameras and machines that should be making a joke of scarcity of not for our greedy overlords.

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        1 month ago

        By “normal” I don’t mean having no emotions or anxieties at all. I mean not having significant visible mental health problems.

        Not sure what your last sentence has to do with anything. “Normal” people existed both before and after capitalism, and it’s perfectly natural, healthy, and achievable to some to have no significant mental health disorders.

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          1 month ago

          The terms normal, healthy, and natural evolve depending on cultural and scientific ideas. Being gay is natural again, but some don’t like the word because they associate it with hate. Normal is a word I associate with hate and exclusivity. I have always been, and always will be, abnormal.

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            1 month ago

            Valid, although I think it’s possible to view something as abnormal without hating or excluding it. I was using it in that sense (analytical rather than judgemental), apologies if that implied hate to you.

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              Ah jeez no I’m sorry, I was being much too severe and I had oversimplified it. Normalcy is great for all kinds of things like roads and statistics. Some of my best friends are normal!