• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    3 months ago

    I am 51 now but in 2018, while still in my forties, I had to have multiple major emergency heart surgeries. I was hospitalized for a week and bed ridden for about a month altogether. During that time, all I had for entertainment was my PS Vita. I decided to buy and play Persona 4 Golden blind and I spent those weeks drifting in and out of consciousness while making friends, fighting monsters and hanging out with high school students in that make believe world instead of focusing on my near death experience or the possibility of financial ruin thanks to medical bills.

    I will never judge anybody that is moved by or comforted by things like anime or JRPGs. I get it.

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        I will always be grateful to that hospital. I was expecting to owe $300k+, it turns out the total bill over $550k, but the hospital fought with the insurance company and got them to pay for most of it leaving me with a balance due of $10k. When I called to set up a payment plan, the lady on the other end said that they would forgive all but $996. I paid it and as soon as I hung up, I was sobbing. $550,000. What is the point of surviving if you are going to spend the rest of your life slaving away to pay off you’re debt.

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    3 months ago

    way worse when it’s a fucking banger of a love story but they’re middle schoolers for some goddamn reason

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    3 months ago

    my personal rule is that, now that i’m an adult, i will generally not watch or read anything where the main characters are high schoolers. it has served me well

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    3 months ago

    Ugh I get such feels from those shows quintessential quintuplets had me openly crying…

    Why can’t real life dating be even remotely like that.

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    3 months ago

    [dropkicks a man through a fourth-story window]

    “I’ve never killed anyone in my life.”