• NABDad@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    19
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    13 days ago

    He got brain cancer and died.

    My mom was horrified when I was happy about it. I told her the person I was before him would not have been happy, but he destroyed that person.

    If I weren’t agnostic, I’d say I hope he rots in hell. As it is, I’m just glad the world has lost another piece of shit.

  • superduperpirate@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    13
    ·
    13 days ago

    I didn’t have a bully in high school, but my middle school bully is serving a life sentence with no possibility of parole - he broke into an old woman’s house, raped her, murdered her, robbed her house, and got caught because he used her credit cards at the mall.

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    10
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    13 days ago

    Dunno. I’ve been pretty selective about who I keep in contact with.

    I hope their life is going well, though. I generally hope everyone’s life is going well.

  • Zak@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    8
    ·
    12 days ago

    I didn’t really have a high school bully, but I did have an elementary school bully. I knew he would end up in prison when we were both five years old.

    He did, for manslaughter, at 19.

  • Smokeydope@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    6
    ·
    edit-2
    12 days ago

    I imagine what happened to them is the same as most regular people. Some of them found a career they may or may not enjoy, got married to someone out of love or fear of being alone, popped a couple kids, and are now relaxing while watching a sports game on the TV.

    School was over a decade ago, kids are shitheads with raging hormones flowing through their underdeveloped brains and usually a good heaping of unresolved neglect/abuse causing further emotional issues. Point is, I don’t care to hold hate in my heart for people who dont even exist anymore as they once were and ive moved on. I hope they found what they want out of life.

  • That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    5
    ·
    12 days ago

    He’s in jail, last I checked. He had anger management issues and serious problems at home. For whatever reason, he took his problems out on me and others. He actually went into the women’s restroom and physically attacked me.

    In my last year of high school in 1999, the police asked him to step out of the classroom and into the hallway to “talk.” There was loud voices, then the sound of a scuffle, shouting, and we could see then police had tackled him to the ground.

    I don’t exactly know what shit he was dealing with at home, but I heard it was bad. Still, that’s no excuse for his behavior towards others.

  • dingus@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    5
    ·
    13 days ago

    Idk if she was my bully necessarily, but the interactions with that group of people fucked with me. Anyway, she became a therapist which I thought was absolutely fucking wild. I wonder if she ever thinks about the way she acted as a teen.

  • Quazatron@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    4
    ·
    13 days ago

    Got married very young, got a crazy wife, had a bunch of kids, divorced, migrated, worked hard, became a decent person in the process and is now a grandfather. I still meet him occasionally and he’s a fun guy to be around of.