We aren’t talking about “getting upset over nothing”. We are talking about your choice to intentionally be rude. Grown adults behave civilly around others and those that cannot do so or choose to not do so are aberrant.
You aren’t in a position to tell anyone to grow up given what you have said here, boy.
NJ here and at no point could you drive on lakes. It doesn’t get that cold. Most of the winter you cannot skate on ponds.