• nifty@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I want to believe that the working class will finally take back its power, the first step of which will be forming strong and effective unions. The second step is ensuring high taxes on the wealthy, coupled with accountability for how that tax revenue is spent

    But I look at all the previous decades of failure, and I recommend that young people in particular should make alternative plans in case they have to fend in a hostile social, political and economic environments

    1—do nothing else but learn some skill or trade (or several) which you can use to get paid

    2—don’t excessively drink, don’t excessively do drugs, don’t excessively sleep around, and get and stay fit

    3—create a network of friends and family, but don’t stress if you cannot. Get a hobby, try to get married, but don’t stress if you don’t. Cut out toxic people and family from your life

    4—do whatever else you care about if you’ve done the above

    Conventional wisdom still helps, don’t be fooled by people who say that it doesn’t work

      • mipadaitu@lemmy.world
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        2 months ago

        I understand the sentiment, drugs, drinking, and sleeping around is a way to have an enjoyable time, but it’s not a way to create meaningful relationships.

        None of those three things are, by themselves, bad. But if you do them to excess, it can replace a real, stable social network.

        The point of getting married is that you legally tie yourself to another person in a way that is recognized by larger institutions. If you don’t have a spouse, or LEGAL family, then it can be difficult to make co-decisions. One of the major reasons why same sex marriage was such a huge deal, was that end of life support and care was almost impossible. You could live with someone for 30 years, but then when they’re in a coma in the hospital, you can’t legally visit them, or make medical decisions for them.