The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.world to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works · 1 month agoSmall talk is an essential skilllemmy.worldimagemessage-square57fedilinkarrow-up1655arrow-down138
arrow-up1617arrow-down1imageSmall talk is an essential skilllemmy.worldThe Picard Maneuver@lemmy.world to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works · 1 month agomessage-square57fedilink
minus-squareFlying Squid@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up37·1 month agoI’m able to make smalltalk. I just don’t enjoy it, so I avoid it when I can. And my wife and I don’t engage in smalltalk. We talk about what we actually care about. Seems to have worked fine for the past 24 years.
minus-squareFarraigePlaisteach@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·1 month agoYes. Non-verbal communication and silence work too.
minus-squaresugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up4·1 month agoCan confirm, I hold our evenings together laying in bed next to each other reading different books or whatever in high esteem. We’re not disfunctional, we’re just introverted, though we like each other’s company.
minus-squareFarraigePlaisteach@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoI thought I was in my messaging app when I read the first sentences and was confused. I thought I was included in the “our evenings” 😆 That sounds lovely and relatable. I let my affection show in glances etc too or a brief hand on the shoulder. Whatever feels authentic at the time.
I’m able to make smalltalk. I just don’t enjoy it, so I avoid it when I can.
And my wife and I don’t engage in smalltalk. We talk about what we actually care about. Seems to have worked fine for the past 24 years.
Yes. Non-verbal communication and silence work too.
Can confirm, I hold our evenings together laying in bed next to each other reading different books or whatever in high esteem. We’re not disfunctional, we’re just introverted, though we like each other’s company.
I thought I was in my messaging app when I read the first sentences and was confused. I thought I was included in the “our evenings” 😆
That sounds lovely and relatable. I let my affection show in glances etc too or a brief hand on the shoulder. Whatever feels authentic at the time.