• hesusingthespiritbomb@lemmy.world
    225·
    2 months ago

    If you reversed the gender on this you’d the comment section would be a combination of roasting the hypothetical dude and complaining how trashy the shirt is.

    I don’t even think the double standard is related to sexism. I think you’re all horny degenerates who are emotionally stunted to the point where any woman implying anything sexual breaks your mind.

    • filtoid@lemmy.ml
      8·
      2 months ago

      I actually disagree with that, if I saw a larger gentleman wearing this I’d feel proud of him for owning his thing with self-depracating humour, and think it was funny, the same as I do here.

  • mightyfoolish@lemmy.world
    11·
    2 months ago

    Clearly, our fathers are trying to give her a massive heart attack before our mothers hear about this lady’s affairs.

    • vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works
      81·
      2 months ago

      Depends on what ya mean by large, if ya mean for example broad shoulder with somewhat odd muscle distribution maybe. But no most folks are just overweight, I have both I am five foot five so its actually accentuated somewhat.

  • XIIIesq@lemmy.world
    3068·
    2 months ago

    Cringe.

    She must have been fucking our dads every night for years.

    Edit: Lol at the downvotes, if you want to wear an edgy shirt in public you’re going to have to expect some edgy retorts and furthermore I think anything that attempts to normalise obesity is absolutely terrible. I know I have to accept that some people are fat, and good for her if she’s happy at that size, but I don’t have to accept edgy excuses for someone else’s poor choices.

    • the post of tom joad@sh.itjust.works
      256·
      2 months ago

      You do have to accept that you sometimes have bad takes like errybody else, and this is one of them.

      It’s not because you made a bad joke, its because you lack the emotional intelligence necessary to ask some things:

      • The likely continuous comments on her figure that caused her to wear this retort

      • The fact that if you werent gonna make a comment to her shes not talking to you

      These 2 things are often conflated in folks who haven’t trained their empathy up, and i suspect you feel like you took damage because even tho you’re not in the room your acting like she’s insulted you.

      I know I have to accept that some people are fat

      You don’t, you have to accept your humanity, which means you’re the same ugly mess of hair and stink and poo as the rest of us. It means you are an unfit judge. Somebody thinks you’re ugly. Someone out there thinks you’re a piece of shit. I think you’re just young. You need to understand your place, and you straight up fuckin’ dont.

      To be a bit unfair youre probably a little too full of yourself, you’ll get over it if you put in work.

      • XIIIesq@lemmy.world
        625·
        2 months ago

        I was probably just downvoted by fat people, my dad must’ve been putting in overtime.

    • pyre@lemmy.world
      112·
      2 months ago

      your retort sucks because you’re trying to own her by saying something she already acknowledges. weak af.

      “I’m fat because I fucked your dad”

      “oh yeah? well you’re fat!”

      …

      “I bet you fucked my dad a lot!”

      genius insults

      • Cryophilia@lemmy.world
        32·
        2 months ago

        Lemmy is full of socially maladapted terminally online autists who literally do not understand how humor works.

      • kofe@lemmy.worldEnglish
        32·
        2 months ago

        People seem to love to jump to this assumption without acknowledging any fallibility, when in reality you don’t know from just looking at someone. Even if it’s a likely reason, it’s not the only one. I’m going to at least hope you aren’t a doctor based on this single sentence.

        • feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world
          24·
          2 months ago

          Excluding weight gain from corticosteroids or something exotic like elephantiasis, it is literally always overeating. I’m prone to it, and nobody can consider it an individual moral failing when obesity has become a massive global epidemic. But there’s genuinely no getting around the fundamental reality that it’s calories in, calories out. Apparently the majority of humans overeat when living a sedentary lifestyle with a readily available food surplus. The incredible success of GLP-1 agonists really hammers that point home if anyone was still unconvinced.

          • kofe@lemmy.worldEnglish
            52·
            2 months ago

            “excluding [things I know about], it is literally always [the only other thing I know about.]” Again, I stress fallibility.

              • kofe@lemmy.worldEnglish
                11·
                2 months ago

                Look, I’ve tried taking a day to reply because this comment pissed me off so much. I watched my mother count calories as a kid and it emotionally scarred me. She wasn’t suffering from the examples you gave. I don’t care to share personal details and shouldn’t have to for you to be aware you may not know everything.

    • zarkanian@sh.itjust.works
      2·
      2 months ago

      anything that attempts to normalise obesity is absolutely terrible

      Boy have you missed the boat on that one. By several decades.