I have posts and comments on Hexbear from 4 hrs ago that don’t show up

I have a comment on Lemmygrad from 4 hrs ago that doesn’t show up

A recent series of posts from ml to other instances have almost no interaction locally. When viewed remotely, they have higher vote counts (no more comments to compare).

I haven’t extensively looked at the new feed to see if posts are outright missing, but I see the same general pattern spot checking posts that do appear: vote totals much lower than elsewhere, missing comments

I don’t see issues reported on https://phiresky.github.io/lemmy-federation-state/site

Plenty of other folks are chiming in with the same experiences. It’s very clearly not just Hexbear. Is every other instance broken? Why are they federating just fine with each other, then?
https://lemmy.world/post/47958962
https://lemmy.ml/post/48512217
https://discuss.online/post/40968502
https://lemmy.ml/post/48508670
https://aussie.zone/post/33509821
https://lemmy.ml/post/48507829
https://piefed.blahaj.zone/c/womensstuff/p/792979/thoughts-on-this
https://lemmy.ml/post/48509886
https://startrek.website/post/40652133
https://lemmy.ml/post/48504964
https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/70286030
https://lemmy.ml/post/48512741
https://lemmy.ca/post/66154822
https://lemmy.ml/post/48503190
And yeah, that doesn’t even get into the posts that haven’t federated at all. I only went through a few pages of /new and I’m on posts that are hours old.