I FOUND IT! I ACTUALLY FOUND IT! I had exhausted all my more targeted ways of finding it and resorted to Google images searching for “point and click game bar” and found a screenshot I recognised.

The game is Mudlarks.

Sorry for the couple of details I misremembered, and thank you to everyone trying to help.

It’s not The Silent Age.

1. I think it was voice acted, but not the protagonist.
2. Male protagonist
3. I watched it on YouTube, could have been anyone I’ve been looking through the videos of my YouTubers from back then and not found it yet. It was a long time ago 6yrs+.
4. Could be older than 10yrs but not older than 15yrs, I think it was a new release at the time I watched it.
5. I think there was the normal animations not 100% though.

No it wasn’t fmv, interesting game though.

It’s not this one’s sorry.

I also remember a scene on the street outside the missing friends flat (apartment) and the protagonist talking up to a woman hanging out an upstairs window. Think he convinces her to throw down the spare key for his friends flat.

PC only I think, the at style was interesting it was photo/high quality drawn. I remember seeing it on YouTube but can’t remember whose channel I was watching it on.

Just PC as far as I know.