Just wanted to say I’m almost 40 and have been of the mindset that I don’t want kids pretty much my whole life. I tell my partners right away, and one even tried to convince me after 5 years of dating. I say that to say this: it is not uncommon. My much older aunt, who is happily married to a man with adult children of his own, is also of this same mindset.
Sometimes I get that twinge of “missing out” on kids when watching something wholesome about family, or seeing a father and son who look crazy alike. But it hasn’t changed my stance.
I know it is entirely not the same, but have you considered a pet together? Having something to care about may give you perspective on if you truly are a loner. I don’t know if you got something out of this comment but just realize the way you feel: you are not alone.
Just wanted to say I’m almost 40 and have been of the mindset that I don’t want kids pretty much my whole life. I tell my partners right away, and one even tried to convince me after 5 years of dating. I say that to say this: it is not uncommon. My much older aunt, who is happily married to a man with adult children of his own, is also of this same mindset.
Sometimes I get that twinge of “missing out” on kids when watching something wholesome about family, or seeing a father and son who look crazy alike. But it hasn’t changed my stance.
I know it is entirely not the same, but have you considered a pet together? Having something to care about may give you perspective on if you truly are a loner. I don’t know if you got something out of this comment but just realize the way you feel: you are not alone.