[M, 20] I’ve been looking for a relationship for awhile now. I’ve had a few shots, but they didn’t go anywhere because they were all single moms with kids (nothing against that lol, I just know what I’m looking for). I wanted to find a girl who’s into computers or coding, and maybe is even into Linux. I know there’s meetup.com or events like DEFCON, but I’m looking for something in my area (NY). I refuse to go on Tinder. Sooner or later, I won’t be carrying a cell phone (switching to laptop as daily) so my options probably just got a lot smaller. Although, I do think I’m pretty attractive, and I feel like I’d still pull regardless. Anwyays, where’s the Linux women at? Like seriously, where? I guess I should just start roaming around with a Python t-shirt or something?

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    3 months ago

    Um, nothing wrong with dating another programmer if you happen to meet one and things go that way, but it’s better to start out with a much wider filter and be open to whatever might develop.

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      3 months ago

      True, It’s not a deal breaker if they’re not into computers. It’s more of a preference that I seek to fulfill.